From Surviving to Thriving
Tough and challenging times come calling for everybody at some point of life. They usually twist, turn and knock us around and are inherent part of living life. And they are something that cannot just be done away with.
They did come calling for me too.
The global economic depression pushed the company to give me the pink slip which forced me to give up my high paying mid level job. Like it is for most of the people, high paying jobs are usually accompanied with high (or higher) cost of living. And it was no different for me. As expected, the industry layoffs resulted in a downturn in employment for the overall economy as well. For the available jobs, I was either under-qualified or overqualified. I took up odd jobs but they didn’t work out for long.
Two steps forward and three steps back! Yes, that summed up my life. Every time I thought I had found a solution to my financial worries, something would fall apart and I would end up feeling worse than before. The latest blow devastated me. My current job was offered to somebody who was willing to work at a lesser pay than me!
The setbacks demoralized me and it was tough to stay positive. The troubles seemed to be never ending just like the bus ride back home. I was having a tough time coping with the bad hand that life threw my way.
A lone tear escaped my eye as the turbulent mind wandered far from where I was.
So lost was I in complaining to God about my life and my circumstances that when a warm hand touched my hand, I nearly jumped out of my skin. I turned to look into the compassionate eyes of a co-passenger. Warmth and life radiated out from where the stranger’s fingers touched my skin.
Before my brain could process a reaction, the stranger lady said, “I don’t know what’s troubling you. But I want you to know that you’ll get through it. Whatever ‘it’ is!”
I looked at her as fresh tears began to well in my eyes. She patted my hand comfortingly and said, “Though you may fear that you won’t make it through. Though you may wonder if the grey sky would brighten again. But believe me that it will work out eventually. All the life’s challenges are not without a purpose. There is a grand design hidden behind them. The Universe is signalling you to evolve to a higher plane. It is time for you to explore your latent power and talents. You can do it. Have faith. And remember that faith and hope never fail.”
Her words were exactly what I needed to hear. Those few simple words comforted me. Her words filled me with optimism and hope. I pondered over what she told me and asked myself questions like, “What do I really, really want in life?” “Where am I going?”…
The answer made me realize for the first time, my true calling in life… Yes, a home baker.
Today, my life is smiling back at me. I have come a long way from merely surviving to thriving. But it was all because the Universe showed me the light at just the right moment through that lady in the bus.
Since I was young, I have always known this: Life damages us, every one. We can’t escape that damage. But now, I am also learning this: We can be mended. We mend each other- Veronica Roth
March 6, 2015 6:50 pm|
I feel, challenges and setbacks are critical to achieve, or even realize our goals! So what’s this home baker? Tell us more about your new venture no…
March 6, 2015 8:36 pm|
Oh yes, difficult times help us grow and realize our potential. A home baker is somebody who bakes professional cakes and works from home.
This is not my story, Rajesh. This is a fiction 😀
March 6, 2015 9:38 pm|
Looking back often we would wonder how we tided over the past , the most difficult of times?
Don’t you think so?
March 21, 2015 1:44 am|
Oh yes. And have you seen the tough times once they are gone, make for such wonderful stories!
March 7, 2015 10:21 am|
Sometimes I feel we wouldn’t have any stories to tell, to derive inspiration from if not for tough times…Liked the last quote a lot, yes we can be mended!
March 21, 2015 1:46 am|
True, such stories instill that hope and faith in us, which is so very much needed in our life’s struggles!
March 7, 2015 10:46 am|
Though this is only a fiction, this post is very inspirational. Thanks.
March 21, 2015 1:47 am|
March 7, 2015 7:16 pm|
Every one in life goes through some rough times.
In my opinion,it is all scripted by almighty up there.HE knows exactly what is coming next..
But, an assuring word from someone helps,doesn’t change our destiny.
March 21, 2015 1:48 am|
Well said! He has written the script of our life and nobody can change it. But a little hope and a kind word can help us sail through tough times!
March 7, 2015 7:27 pm|
Shilpa, I’ve been through that for two years, not far from now and it lead to a depression which I am slowly coming out of. It was a tough phase where I slowly lost a part of me. But, encouraging and comforting words helped me stay somewhat sane and with bloggers like you and so many, I sailed through.
March 21, 2015 1:51 am|
I am sorry that you had to go through a tough time, Vishal. Glad that it’s behind you! Stay strong and positive and God bless you!
March 8, 2015 10:29 am|
Such a positive story, Shilpa! True that, tough times don’t last but tough people like that homebaker do.
March 21, 2015 1:51 am|
Yes tough times dont last, but tough people do!! Thanks Asha!
March 13, 2015 5:50 am|
As they say ‘failure is the pillar of success’. We may fall numerous times but we need to have the courage and the determination to succeed :).
March 21, 2015 1:52 am|
Yes, nothing is ever achieved without grit and determination!
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