The One That Got Away
Today’s prompt for #FridayReflections is…
“Then I wondered if everybody has that person that haunts them, the one that got away.”― Marlon James, A Brief History of Seven Killings
The first thought that comes to my mind when I think about ‘the one that got away’ is unrequited love. But it could be about the missed opportunities, or the relationships that didn’t work out, as well.
‘The one that got away’ brings to my mind the thought that a relationship or an opportunity should have worked but somehow it didn’t turn out as per the expectations and their paths diverged.
How would one feel about ‘the one that got away’? What would be the dominant feeling? Would it be regret or hurt or pain or doubt or…? Would the various ‘could have been’ scenarios create havoc in the head? Would the heart shed silent tears?
I remember writing a 100 word story on this very thought a few years ago, which I believe is apt for this prompt. So here’s a rehash of an old post…
La douleur exqise*… the words that explained how he felt.
He knew that she would never be his. But when does love follow rules?
For months, he felt a heavy stone on his heart, with sad tears washing it.
The pain was killing him and he believed that he’d never get over her.
Then just like a new day, change came his way.
He realized that he was done with regrets. He had to move on.
He understood that some people can be a part of your history but never your destiny!
Slowly, he felt his heart begin to heal…
*La douleur exqise – It means, the heart wrenching pain of wanting affection of someone unattainable.
Linking this to #FridayReflections
July 21, 2017 10:19 pm|
La douleur exqise: sounds aptly poignant. Well-written, Shilpa.
August 3, 2017 11:23 pm|
Thanks a lot, Damyanti!
July 21, 2017 11:09 pm|
Life always throws different challenges at us and make us think of various ‘could have been’ scenarios.
I think its better to let go or as you said La douler exqise. Lovely post.
August 3, 2017 11:27 pm|
True, could have been scenarios bring nothing but pain, regret, yearning, sadness… it;s best to move on. Thanks Deepa, glad you liked this post!
July 21, 2017 11:33 pm|
A door closes, another opens – exqise indeed –
August 3, 2017 11:27 pm|
True that…
July 22, 2017 12:47 am|
A song by Katy Petty comes to my mind:
In another life
I would make you stay
So I don’t have to say
You were the one that got away
The one that got away
August 3, 2017 11:29 pm|
Aww! That’s so beautiful, SG!! Thanks for sharing!
July 22, 2017 2:55 am|
I love this line! “He understood that some people can be a part of your history but never your destiny!”
Great story!
August 3, 2017 11:30 pm|
Thanks a lot, Magickmermaid. Glad you enjoyed this story!
July 22, 2017 8:35 am|
It is simply superb Shilpa. Love the line on history and Destiny.
August 3, 2017 11:30 pm|
Thank you, Lata 🙂
July 22, 2017 9:02 am|
Well said Shilpa, some people are simply meant to a part of your past.
August 3, 2017 11:31 pm|
True and it’s best to move on!
July 22, 2017 11:41 am|
The story is powerfully weaved and the pain that afflicts the mind and soul. It’s better to move on and start all over again to see things with a fresh perspective.
August 3, 2017 11:32 pm|
Agree with you, Vishal. It is not possible to move forward while looking back.
July 22, 2017 12:50 pm|
He understood that some people can be a part of your history but never your destiny! So true words. Really a good take on the prompt !!!
August 3, 2017 11:32 pm|
Thank you, Vasantha!
July 22, 2017 6:33 pm|
People are part of our history but don’t they in some way affect your destiny? Isn’t everyone sent in your life to teach you something?
August 3, 2017 11:34 pm|
Oh yes, everyone we meet is there to teach us something in life and guess that’s part of our destiny!
July 22, 2017 7:09 pm|
It’s only when we let go and accept the bitter truth, that we begin to heal. I think I remember reading this 55’er before on your blog.
August 3, 2017 11:37 pm|
True that. It is tough to move on but sooner or later we’ve all got to let go of our past! Yes, this is an old post 😛
July 22, 2017 10:12 pm|
Coming to your blog after ages! Glad that some people still continue their blogging old way
August 3, 2017 11:44 pm|
Hello there!! Good to see you here!! 🙂
Are you back to blogging? Cant access your blog!!
August 4, 2017 9:24 pm|
here
July 23, 2017 2:34 am|
Unrequited love. I am fortunate enough that I never experienced it. But there is a “what if” in my husband’s family. His brother had an attraction to the girl who lived next door to his cousin. But the girl ended up marrying the cousin (and is still living happily ever after, incidentally). An interesting “what if” for our family, because she ended up not getting away, after all.
August 3, 2017 11:44 pm|
Aha! That’s interesting. Glad that at least one of them is happy. 🙂
July 23, 2017 6:57 pm|
Ok – I’ve read way too many crime stories. The One That Got Away conjured in my mind only images of police and crime scenes and that “one” who was almost caught, running away into the darkness 😛
I love the last but one line in your poem: He understood that some people can be a part of your history but never your destiny!
August 3, 2017 11:46 pm|
Yeah, in crime stories, the one that got away would have committed a perfect crime.
Thanks Priya, glad you liked this attempt!
July 24, 2017 12:03 pm|
Reminded me of a telugu movie I saw very recently “Ninnu Kori” means wanting you 🙂 a love story that touches you… how despite of love each other, due to circumstances, they couldn’t be part of each other’s life…
In life too, no matter what – some people are never meant to be with us… its important to learn and move on… meaningful post shilpa:)
August 3, 2017 11:47 pm|
Yes, some relationships are not meant to be…
For one’s own peace of mind and happiness, it’s best to let go of the past and move on. Thanks a lot, Genevive, glad you liked this post!
July 24, 2017 6:33 pm|
Yes…some are part of history. It’a always good to let them be there rather than dragging them to the present.
July 24, 2017 9:40 pm|
My favorite is, “He understood that some people can be a part of your history but never your destiny!”
August 3, 2017 11:47 pm|
Thank you, C!! 🙂
July 26, 2017 5:02 am|
‘Better to have loved and lost than not loved at all’!
August 3, 2017 11:49 pm|
That’s an interesting perspective to have, the one that will give you inner peace! 🙂
July 26, 2017 11:49 am|
Your 100 words post says it all. The one that got away could be a career option not chosen, love interest not pursued, or unrequited love. In all these cases some regret is bound to be there.
August 3, 2017 11:51 pm|
Yes, regrets are there for all missed and lost opportunities.