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Raipur Police’s ‘Chuppi Todd’ Campaign Protects Women From Domestic Violence #WATWB

J from Raipur made several attempts to draw her neighbour’s attention towards her abusive husband. While physical abuse was not a new phenomenon, the lockdown limited her options to get help.

Earlier, she would walk out of her small shanty in the slum or at least visit her relatives for a few hours. But because of social distancing protocols, no help came forward.

This is a story common for thousands of households across India, where a woman is forced to stay at home with her abuser so that she is ‘safe’ from coronavirus. Ironical, isn’t it?

But, what about domestic violence, the silent epidemic that has amplified since the lockdown due to reasons like loss of livelihoods and closure of liquor shops?

With the high risk of transmission of a deadly virus, how would a woman approach a police station or seek medical help in case of an assault or mental trauma when she is obligated by the state and public health guidelines to stay at home with her abuser?

No doubt, the victims can take help through the government helpline services and NGOs, but are these enough to stop the abuse at a time when stepping outside is a threat in itself?

When IPS Arif Shaikh, Senior Superintendent of Police (SSP), Raipur was faced with such hard-hitting questions in March, he immediately chalked out a comprehensive strategy to address domestic violence without the need for the victim to visit a police station.

Under the ‘Chuppi Todd’ (Break the Silence) initiative, Shaikh has rolled out a WhatsApp number (94791-91250), where women can lodge complaints with the police and seek help.

Once the complaint is made, the police visit the victim’s house instead of calling her to the police station. The aim is to take preventive measures and action against the culprits instantly.

Take, for instance, the case of J, who immediately called the police and reported her husband. After counselling, she was sent to her relative’s house.

The IPS officer has formed four on-field teams, each consisting of four women constables, and another team that receives complaints. Based on the urgency of the matter, the remotely operating team informs the on-field staff, who then visit the victim’s home.

Citing reasons for an increase in crimes against women, Shaikh shared, “Loss of jobs has swelled anger and frustration among men and hitting their wives is a convenient and easy option to release the lockdown pressure. Additionally, forced abstinence from alcohol aggravates the problem. The systematic lockdown has shut all avenues for women.”

“Many women do not have access to phones or are scared to ask for help. In such cases, they continue to suffer. Thus, we compiled a database of previous years and started calling such women to inquire about their safety and health,” explained Shaikh to The Better India.

Despite making several calls every day, many women were hesitant. With male members around them all the time, they were afraid to explain the atrocities freely.

This was solved by preparing a questionnaire of eleven close-ended questions. The police officer visiting the victim pretended to be a doctor and conducted their inquiry.

Some of the questions were: Are you fine, Do you need help from the police, Is your husband or any other family member harming you, Is your husband drinking and so on.

Depending on the severity of the issue, action is taken. In most cases, counselling is provided via call or at the victim’s house. However, six FIRs have also been registered. Meanwhile, preventive action was taken in six cases.

The team has also got complaints from male members who are subjected to abuse at home. Of the total 40 complaints, half were authentic.

The social media awareness and circulation of phone numbers even saw the elderly reporting abuse.

Calls regarding abuse even poured in from Gujarat, Rajasthan, and Uttar Pradesh. In such cases, the police reached out and handed over the case details to the concerned district officials.

As per the National Commission for Women (NCW)’s data, there was a two-fold increase in gender-based violence across India in March.

While the socio-economic condition is not a factor for domestic violence, women from poorer backgrounds have limited resources to seek help.

When the world is reeling under a crisis, it is imperative to reach out to the helpless, especially women, who are subjected to abuse in their houses.

So, call your relative, friend, sister, domestic help, neighbour or colleague, and ask if they need any help. A simple intervention from your side can make a difference in the lives of those suffering from abuse amid the lockdown.

If you want to report abuse or help anyone, make a call to these helpline numbers.

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6 Responses

  1. This is a cause worthy fighting for; especially in this lock down it is stated that domestic violence and child abuse cases have risen high. The women’s helpline is flooded with calls there is Sakhi programme facilitated by NGOs with a helpline number 181 that provides rescue, medical services, police assistance and psycho social counseling & legal counseling with temporary shelter and even long term shelter. Chupi Thod campaign is relevant and kudos to Raipur’s Police for initiating this service. Thank you for sharing shilpa, hope all well with you, and hopefully you are home and safe.

  2. Shilpa, thanks for sharing this heart-wrenching story. I’m so glad someone is reaching out to these unfortunate women who need help so much now. How clever of Arif Shaikh to create the ‘Chuppi Todd’ (Break the Silence) initiative, and roll out a WhatsApp number (94791-91250), where women can hopefully get help from the police.

  3. A much needed initiative, thanks for sharing this story Shilpa. GBV – Gender Based Violence has increased a lot here in my country during the time of covid-19. It’s always been a terrible issue. Will share on my FB, there’s info on your story we could use here. There are initiatives here I have to say but we can learn from yours.

  4. Congratulations to the Raipur Police. They are far superior to Tamilnadu Police. They tortured and killed 2 people (father and son) because their shop was open 5 minutes more than the curfew time.

  5. Good for the Raipur Police, especially the bit about showing up at the house rather than dragging someone who’s already having problems down to the station. This is a horrific problem that’s only been exacerbated by the pandemic.

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